Much like the Stages of Grief, a two year old party has it's own stages. Here are mine:
1. Excitement - Days before the party, there is a lot of pointing and giggling when party supplies are brought in. Excitement rises when cake and decor begin to take shape.
2. Denial - The day of the party, general denial sets in. "Are you having a party, Reese?" "No." "Are your friends coming over?" "No."
3. Happiness - At the party, when very few guests have arrived, things are fairly calm and there are a lot of fun things to do. Enjoyment and happiness set in.
4. Shock - When lots of friends arrive all at once, it may become overwhelming and shock often sets in. Cuddling, hiding in grandparents or parents, and loudly saying, "no!" are all effective coping techniques.
5. Acceptance - After the crowd stops trying to give birthday wishes, things calm down again. The festivities become fun and no one is trying to separate children and their guardians, as one might have feared. Full acceptance, and even giddiness, may result.
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